What is Childhood Traumatic Grief
Childhood traumatic grief may occur following a death of someone important to the child when the child perceives the experience as traumatic. The death may have been sudden and unexpected (e.g., through violence or an accident), or anticipated (e.g., resulting from illness or other natural causes).
The distinguishing feature of childhood traumatic grief is that the trauma symptoms interfere with the child's ability to go through the typical process of bereavement. The child experiences a combination of trauma and grief symptoms so severe that any thoughts or reminders?even happy ones?about the person who died can lead to frightening thoughts, images, and/or memories of how the person died.
Recognizing and Responding to Childhood Traumatic Grief
Helping Teens with Traumatic Grief: Tips for Caregivers describes how teens struggling with the death of someone close may feel and what you can do to help.
Helping Young Children with Traumatic Grief: Tips for Caregivers outlines how children struggling with the death of someone close may feel and what you can do to help.
Helping School-Age Children with Traumatic Grief: Tips for Caregivers gives ideas on what school-age children with traumatic grief may think and ways you can help.
Ready to Remember: Jeremy's Journey of Hope and Healing (PDF)
Ready to Remember tells the story of a 10-year-old boy's experience following the tragic death of his father. Jeremy is having a traumatic reaction and struggling at school and at home. Developed for the school age reader, with an additional caregiver guide, the illustrated book describes Jeremy's journey as he and his family get help and are able to enjoy happy memories together.
It's Okay to Remember (Video)
A moving first-person narrative illustrating how a family can move through the pain of loss and go on to heal. The family shares their personal experiences of the traumatic grief experienced by one daughter after her sister's sudden death. Helps parents, educators, pediatricians, and others who care for children to understand childhood traumatic grief.
Developed as a companion to the training video The Courage to Remember, the guide presents a more in-depth description of the treatment components (both individual and group interventions) for children and caregivers who have been impacted by traumatic grief. Clearly organized and labeled for ease of use, it includes main therapeutic concepts, therapeutic activities, case examples, handouts, and resources. The material represents the results of significant advances in the field of childhood traumatic grief and the unique collaboration of researchers and clinicians in academic and community settings throughout the country.
For Members of the News Media (2004) (PDF)
For Parents (2004) (PDF)
>En Español: Guía informativa para los padres sobre la aflicción traumática infantil (2004)
For Pediatricians and Pediatric Nurses (2004) (PDF)
For School Personnel (2004) (PDF)
Below are some of the many resources on childhood traumatic grief available to parents and caregivers, children, and mental health professionals. Links to Web-accessible resources are also provided.
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Childhood Traumatic Grief Additional Resources - For Caregivers (2010) (PDF)
Childhood Traumatic Grief Additional Resources - For Children and Teens (2010) (PDF)
Childhood Traumatic Grief Additional Resources - For Professionals (2010) (PDF)
- Sims, D. (2001). What color is dead? How to help grieving children. Puyallup, WA: American Grief Academy.
An innovative tool for helping people identify, clarify, and express feelings. “Players will be able to relate more honestly to others as they learn to express feelings. As a result, players become more effective problem-solvers, and the identification and expression of feelings brings clarity to players' needs, which in turn leads to enhanced self-esteem. The game is a wonderful tool to equalize those who use words as a defense but have difficulty being emotionally honest, and for those who have great difficulty being articulate on any level.” Available from: AuthorsDen.com, ClaudiaBlack.com, Mentor Books, and SelfHelpWarehouse.com.
"Everybody knows how to play Bingo, but this version requires players to identify feelings rather than numbers on their Bingo cards. Ideal for counseling groups or classrooms . . . not only helps children learn to recognize various feelings, it also teaches empathy—a trait associated with lower incidence of violent behavior. Game rules provide opportunities for children to discuss their own feelings and to respond empathetically to the feelings of others. The teen version features feelings that are common in adolescence." Available from: Creative Therapy Store and Western Psychological Services.
In addition to the camps listed below, local bereavement centers will have information about area camp programs.
Camp Erin, The Moyer Foundation
Nationwide network of bereavement camps for children and teens ages 6–17 who are grieving the loss of someone close to them.
Comfort Zone Camp
(804) 377-3430 / (866) 488-5679
Nationwide network of free bereavement camps for children and teens aged 7–17 who have experienced the death of a parent, sibling, or primary caregiver. The camps are held year-round across the country.
Judi's House/Heroic Journey
A seven-day wilderness adventure designed for teens coping with the death of a loved one. Enables teens to connect and build supportive relationships with other teens going through similar challenges in life. Funded by and delivered in partnership with Outward Bound.